The medals don’t mean anything and the glory doesn’t last. It’s all about your happiness. The rewards are going to come, but the happiness is just loving the sport and having fun performing. Jackie Joyner Kersee Sports, whether team-based or individual, are a great physical activity, which provides a myriad of excellent benefits, from getting fit and healthy to developing your social skills and leadership position.
Undoubtedly, participation in athletics is rather important in order to build your self-esteem and increase the feeling of self-confidence, but it is completely understandable that taking part in sport competitions sometimes doesn’t suit children’s interests, desires and physical abilities. First of all, should all children be forced to participate in athletics? I respectfully but adamantly disagree with making children do something they don’t really like.
Although most adults have great intentions while taking their children to sport sections, they usually forget that a child who is forced to participate in sport is already anxious about it. What is more, scientists have proved that parents, who make their children do different activities, are trying to make their unfulfilled dreams and unmet needs come true. Sometimes parents, who are, by the way, naturally athletic, hope their children to follow their path and to be the same way, but the fact is that a child, who is forced to do hateful sports, is already likely to fail.
On the contrary, I strongly believe that children should be encouraged to take part in sports and sporting competition and, as a result, make their lives and habits healthier. In my opinion, you only live once, so that is the reason why you should try on everything and athletics is not an exception. Without any sporting experience you may grow up not realizing your full potential. Besides those already listed athletics benefits, sports can prevent children from being bored as well as spending their time purposelessly in front of computers or television.
A child will also learn how to interact with peers, set goals and find different ways to achieve them. Secondly, an integral part of the sport is a competition among peers, which also seem to be a kind of interaction that helps children to gain an ability to compete honestly and fairly. But there are two sides to every coin so it could also hardly influence the child’s mind. He will face the realities of life: someone will be better and stronger than him and someone will be richer (today money plays a great role in our lives, so there is no doubt that they could also influence sports. Athletics competitions include not only physical skills and abilities of the child, but also his psychological readiness to move forth, overcoming numerous obstacles and ignoring various problems. So only when the child is ready to make the grade, competition would become an important life lesson. Finally, although the winning is important and sports should be taken seriously, by far, winning isn’t the sense of our lives. Vince Lombardi’s famous saying “Winning isn’t the most important thing.
It’s the only thing” is becoming more and more popular today. As for me, I understand that having fun while taking part in a competition is important, but a child definitely won’t be satisfied with his lose. He just can’t be happy simply competing and only participation is not able to realize his ambition and desires. In my opinion, children are often trying make their parents be proud of them and that is the reason why they usually put everything they have and give one hundred percent to the effort.
The loss could become a severe trauma to the child, so I strongly believe that a parent should help his child to place his priorities: winning or entertainment. To sum up, today athletics are becoming more and more popular among the nation’s youth and there are so many options for children to lead and combine a healthy lifestyle and fascinating pastime. The main thing is to give them a freedom to choose what they like and remember that working together while finding out the best hobby for the child is quite important.